Nothing

 Turns out he was nothing. Nothing at all. Just like he said, normally to seem charming and fishing for compliments. They are so cocky. 

It was indeed what people say about us, anxious people, being drawn by avoidants for their supposed misterious character when in fact they're just lacking and empty. They got nothing at all. What we're illusioned to believe is what we think they have as an inner world, only because they like certain things. But, in truth, they are only influenced by others suggestions and they don't really think for themselves. They go on building these hopeless damned personas to justify their lack of accountability and courage to improve themselves as human beings. It's quite pathetic, really sad. Those are the men that everyone thinks they are great and powerful. What a shame!