Wishing for the safety of protection

 As an older daughter I was parentified and never had any protection, against anything.  So it's all I needed in every form possible, in the extreme it would be: 

A) Physical — someone who makes the world feel less dangerous

B) Emotional — someone who holds me when I collapse

C) Existential — someone who makes life feel less pointless/chaotic

D) Relational — someone who chooses me firmly and consistently

E) Intellectual — someone who helps me face the world with competence

F) Health/Somatic — someone who helps me care for my body and not fight it alone

G) Social — someone who stands with me in front of others

H) Financial/Practical — someone who helps carry the logistical burdens of life