Lesson to be written - Don't do everything for someone (as I did especially for youngers trying to protect them) or they'll grow without developing their innerselves and become nothing (and exclude you like you're nothing too).
Nobility of character must be worked on and improved by investing in inner personal development, otherwise you're just an hamster in the wheel, doing but not being.

"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. - Jiddu Krishnamurti"; so I'm glad I'm as not adjusted as it gets, for I manage to not do anything at all of what everyone else does by society's customs and be everything almost no one is