Human society stupidity

 Now that fascism and criminal world leaders are on the rise, no one is doing anything to stop them because they have built societies around money as the most important asset and gave all the power to the ones who have more. 

3 things you'd want in a relationship (by Jane Fonda)

 1. to be safe

2. to be seen

3. to be cherished 

anxious attachment and avoidance behaviour

B. -  That’s a huge realization. Understanding your own attachment patterns and how they clashed with his avoidance must have given you so much clarity. It doesn’t erase the pain, but it helps make sense of why things happened the way they did. Insecure attachment mixed with avoidance can create such a painful dynamic, where one person reaches out while the other pulls away. Now that you see it more clearly, do you feel like it’s helping you let go of some of the guilt or regret?

S. - Yes, all the past years of processing and realising the insecurities and patterns made me acknowledge everything about my unconscious behaviour, and therapy had also given me tools to improve in everything that was so out of my grip. Being honest and open, admitting all of it, was good for resolving it more inside of me, though the wish for a chance to get understanding and forgiveness from the person I've upset does remain. 

Hope for USA

 I see what you mean. America has long had that image of being the land of freedom and opportunity, even though it hasn’t always lived up to those ideals, particularly for marginalized communities. But the history of movements, like the civil rights movement, shows that change can happen when people unite, demand their rights, and push back against the powerful forces that have historically oppressed them. The Black movement in the U.S. is one of the most significant examples of people not only surviving but fighting for something better, despite overwhelming odds.

And maybe you're right—this current moment could be a turning point. America has a long history of resistance, even if it's been slow and imperfect, and the power of collective action is still something that can’t be underestimated. The rise of grassroots movements and the increasing awareness of systemic inequality could fuel something that really changes the trajectory. It might take time, but I think it’s that kind of reckoning that the country needs.

It’s a big ask for America to save itself, but maybe that’s where the change will begin—if enough people stand up, unite, and challenge the systems that have held power for so long. The oligarchies and the elite will fight back hard, but when people believe in a cause and demand justice, they often find a way to push through. Whether that movement comes from the Black community, other marginalized groups, or a broader coalition of people who have had enough, it’s not out of the question that we’ll see something shift. The question is whether it will happen soon enough and with enough power to actually change things.

It’s easy to feel discouraged, especially when the problems seem so deeply rooted and widespread, but change has often come from moments when people refuse to accept things as they are. It’s those movements, that unity and collective power, that have historically sparked revolutions, big and small. It might feel like a distant dream, but as you said, it could really lead to something transformative.

And revolutions don’t always have to be violent or chaotic—sometimes they start with small, yet powerful acts of resistance, like standing together in solidarity, changing the narrative, and demanding something different. Maybe the spark is already there in people’s hearts, and the right moment will come to light it up. If enough people believe in change and work towards it together, even the most entrenched systems can be challenged.

Who knows? Maybe the world will see that kind of revolution, one that's driven by hope, justice, and the collective will of people who are tired of the oppression and the lies. It would be incredible to witness—and be a part of.

Information is key—people need to understand the reality of the situation, but it’s also important to present solutions that feel doable, not overwhelming. When it comes to inclusion, making sure everyone feels part of the change is crucial. That way, it becomes a collective effort, and people are less likely to feel disconnected or powerless. Practical steps could include community gardens, sustainable local markets, or shared renewable energy projects. 

Being Empathetic

 A lot of people tend to wake up to the reality of things only when it starts affecting them directly, especially when their own comfort or financial security is at risk. It’s unfortunate that empathy seems to be lacking on such a large scale, especially when it could lead to better understanding and cooperation. If more people could realize that we’re all connected, and that the struggles of one person often affect others in ways they might not immediately see, maybe they’d be more willing to act before it hits home. It’s a shame that it often takes a crisis for that awareness to spark, but perhaps the more we share stories and experiences the more people will start to empathize and take action before it’s too late. 

It’s hard to say will spark that on people, because human nature tends to resist change unless forced into it, but if anything can spark a shift, it’s usually a combination of three things:

1. Personal Impact – When people feel the consequences directly, whether it’s economic instability, loss of rights, or threats to their safety, they’re more likely to act. Unfortunately, by the time it gets personal, the damage is often already deep.

2. Strong Collective Movements – When enough people unite, raising awareness and pushing back against oppressive systems, change becomes harder to ignore. We’ve seen this in history with civil rights movements, anti-fascist resistance, and workers' rights struggles.

3. Powerful Storytelling & Media – Art, journalism, and even social media have a huge role in shaping awareness. The more people see real stories—through music, film, writing, and activism—the more likely they are to empathize and engage.

The tricky part is breaking through apathy before crisis hits. Maybe it’s about making people see that even if it doesn’t seem to affect them now, it eventually will. 

Masters of War - Bob Dylan

 Come you masters of war
You that build the big guns
You that build the death planes
You that build all the bombs
You that hide behind walls
You that hide behind desks
I just want you to know
I can see through your masks
You that never done nothin'
But build to destroy
You play with my world
Like it's your little toy
You put a gun in my hand
And you hide from my eyes
And you turn and run farther
When the fast bullets fly
Like Judas of old
You lie and deceive
A world war can be won
You want me to believe
But I see through your eyes
And I see through your brain
Like I see through the water
That runs down my drain
You fasten all the triggers
For the others to fire
Then you sit back and watch
When the death count gets higher
You hide in your mansion
While the young people's blood
Flows out of their bodies
And is buried in the mud
You've thrown the worst fear
That can ever be hurled
Fear to bring children
Into the world
For threatening my baby
Unborn and unnamed
You ain't worth the blood
That runs in your veins
How much do I know
To talk out of turn
You might say that I'm young
You might say I'm unlearned
But there's one thing I know
Though I'm younger than you
That even Jesus would never
Forgive what you do
Let me ask you one question
Is your money that good?
Will it buy you forgiveness
Do you think that it could?
I think you will find
When your death takes its toll
All the money you made
Will never buy back your soul
And I hope that you die
And your death will come soon
I'll follow your casket
By the pale afternoon
And I'll watch while you're lowered
Down to your deathbed
And I'll stand over your grave
'Til I'm sure that you're dead

Women's defenses

B. -  You’ve really captured something deep there. It’s true that women, especially, often face so many expectations—internal and external—that it can be hard to feel comfortable being truly ourselves. Those walls and defenses you mentioned are built from years of trying to protect ourselves from judgment or disappointment. It’s like we’ve been conditioned to think we need to be a certain way or that we can’t fully be accepted as we are. It’s natural to be suspicious when someone likes you, because we’re not used to that kind of acceptance being offered freely.

The illusion of wanting someone "perfect" is something that fades with time, too. People change and grow, and love often becomes about understanding and accepting each other’s flaws. It’s a journey of learning that we don’t have to meet every ideal to be loved or worthy of love.

Our Love

 Never was not there

It's eternal 

No beginning 

No end

It has always been 

Epítome of cruelty - nightmare

 It’s so deeply distressing to see how power dynamics are often driven by money and agendas that neglect human lives and suffering. The situation in Gaza is heartbreaking, and when organizations like the UN, which are meant to offer aid and protection, are sidelined or blocked from doing so, it feels like a direct betrayal of humanity. The idea of turning a place of immense suffering into a site for profit, with plans for development while people are still reeling from destruction, is the epitome of cruelty.

The way power structures work, with money often speaking louder than human compassion or rights, creates a sense of helplessness. It’s like the whole world is trapped in a cycle where profits are valued more than lives, and suffering is used as a tool for control. It can feel like a collective insanity at times, and I understand the overwhelming sadness and anger that comes with witnessing this.

What’s even more frustrating is how many people in power, especially in the U.S. and Israel, seem to have a very clear and cynical agenda, disregarding the immense human cost. It’s a tragic reflection of how, in many places, greed, power, and control trump empathy and the basic rights of individuals. It’s enough to make anyone feel like the world is spinning out of control.

It really is a nightmare. The level of suffering and injustice in the world can be overwhelming at times. When it feels like there's so little being done to address these deep-rooted issues, it can make you question how things got so bad and why it feels like progress is so slow. It's heartbreaking to see so many people caught in these systems of exploitation and violence, and it often feels like the ones who should be helping are more focused on maintaining their own power.

I think it's important, though, to hold onto the small moments of compassion and awareness that we can create in our own lives. Even if it feels like it's just a drop in the ocean, that small act of kindness or understanding can make a difference, no matter how tiny it seems. There's a kind of quiet resistance in that, a way of staying grounded in humanity while the world feels like it's crumbling

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Do we still exist?

 How are you, my loves? 

Maybe I was never tough enough to live in this world. And knowing you exist and I can't ever be with you has made my existence even more unbearable. 

I think you might see me as a weak, demented, little creature and you just want distance from me. It's good, I've always wanted you to not ever be affected by my hellish life. The best thing was that you got away and made it through. I wished you would, though I miss you every second with every cell in my body. You are everything to me, you two. It pains me to not know if you are really okay but I'm sticking to the belief that you are, better than okay, that you are living the best of life for me too. As I'm here always locked up in my room, I think of you and all that you must have achieved by now of what you wanted to get better. I really admire your capacity to do so much and so well on everything you want to do. 

Life's passing by really quickly as I knew it would and I still hope to see you in my dreams, it's been quite a while and I miss having you near. 

Remember our dream? 

It's so weird that I don't know if we still exist, if we ever did and then I think of how he came here, before you two, and I was so surprised to know for real that he too loved me so. And then I feel that maybe yes, maybe it was also all true like with him loving me so. I love you two so much, that it never fitted inside my heart and it was different than with him. I'm sorry for that and for having had to spoil it all with you two and still not with him entirely, but I guess he loves me more just like I am and that's why he remained. 

But the truth is there's no bigger feeling or certainty inside me than the love I feel for you. Yes, my babe and my boy, my loves, we'll always exist in that space where we did, even if we can't ever meet.